Confidence in yourself would be the biggest turn on for myself, as long as your confident in yourself and your body then you would already be someone i would like to hang out with and maybe more. I'm a honest and caring per who like to be outdoors, swimming, working out, SI-FI books, movies, driving, and taking photos. I love the outdoors camping and fishing.
I can be quite dominant but this is not a prerequisite for each and every partner.